Tuesday 5 June 2018

Ways Of Communicating With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


Sometimes, we take for granted our ability to do normal things like speaking, hearing or seeing or even touching. Some people live very difficult lives and have to find ways of passing messages. Luckily, for people who do not hear, they can be taught how to communicate in sign language. However, there are other ways if a person did not always have this problem. Below are some of the effective methods to communicate to your husband hard of hearing.

When a speaking to a person with difficulty in hearing, it is important to be considerate of this fact. Therefore, before you begin to speak, make a point of catching the persons attention. With normal people, you could just begin to talk but with them, concentration is paramount on their part. To avoid them not following the conversation, it is important to inform them before you talk.

Make sure that they are able to see your mouth. They fill in what they cannot hear by reading your lips. To make it easier for them, avoid covering your mouth while talking. Ensure you are in a well-lit place so that they can make out whatever it is you are saying. You should also avoid chewing a moving around as you speak.

The hearing aid only controls the loudness of what you are saying. If you, therefore, want to be heard, it is best you try enunciating in your speech. Apart from enunciating, make sure that you speak at a steady pace. This allows the listening party time to try and read your lips and process what is being said. Too slow maybe useless as it may be hard to gather what is being said.

Pick your venue carefully. When you go to a noisy place, communication will be impossible. At home, make sure the music is off and things such as the Ac unit or fan are not loud. Otherwise, their concentration will be disrupted. The reaching out aid will actually make it worse by amplifying the noise. You should choose quite well-lit places.

At times, it is usually a group of people hanging out. You may be very excited but it is difficult to consider the person with trouble hearing. You should make an effort to face the person as you speak and make sure they can see you. You should also not speak at the same time. Take turns to avoid excluding the person.

At times, you may be needed to repeat saying something a few times before they get it. Sometimes the words you use may prove difficult for them to understand and it is at that point that you will need to rephrase your sentence. If all of that still does not work, try spelling out the first few letters of the difficult word.

You want the person to be comfortable around you. When you have a hard time understanding each other, you can look at the positive side and make fun of it. This will make you more comfortable with each other.




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